Father Forgive Them…
What’s tougher than forgiveness? Forgiving when the other party doesn’t know they’ve hurt you. Some questions will emerge:
- If I forgive without them realizing their wrongdoing or while they’re in denial, am I enabling their behavior?
- If reconciliation is born out of forgiveness, how do I reconcile with someone who’s totally clueless of their mistakes?
- If I try to make them aware, won’t I seem like some annoying person who wants peace if they’re not even thinking about the situation anymore?
Answers: Yes, You Can’t, and Perhaps. “Father forgive them for they’re utterly clueless” just took on a whole new meaning.